I’m so very thankful for my good friend at work (my work spouse) who let me be an emotional crazy bag lady this afternoon. I’m grateful for his very calm demeanor, and his analytical approach to life. I also appreciate his 2 cents on the hypothetical situation I described in an earlier post.
To sum up his thoughts…..from the man’s perspective he simply does not want to enable the woman. She’s the one who has always said she wanted to lose 20 more pounds. She’s not finished until she says she is finished. It’s her battle. It’s her “thing”. All he should do is get out of the way, and tell bad jokes from time to time. It’s obvious he digs her stuff. It’s obvious he finds her attractive.
So chill the heck out, hypothetical woman!
Work spouse also said that anyone in my zip code and surrounding zip codes knows what I did in the last year and is in complete awe. He said that 98% of people just say “I could never even attempt that”, then out of the 2% that try, only a small percentage of them accomplish even 50% of what I did.
That’s what he said. Then he wrapped it all up by calling me a good egg.
I don’t know if it’s ketosis, the weather, or just a slight manic phase….but my mind has been going 3000 mph lately, and it’s no wonder I’m trying to get everything figured out and drive myself nuts in the meantime.